The awareness of autism is not to say these things to the parents of a autistic child

The awareness of autism is not to say these things to the parents of a autistic child

The awareness of autism is not to say these things to the parents of a autistic child
The awareness of autism is not to say these things to the parents of a autistic child
Some people say things are stupid at all, often harsh and blunt, thinking they're saying good and positive, but they often fail to imagine them.
If you are the father of an autistic child and you have mostly heard some of those phrases, and if you are not.
Please do not open your mouth to say The following derogatory phrases:
1-"Well, at least your son is not mentally retarded! Some children with autism will be" What a phrase denotes sintering feeling and neglect as well
2 - Whew "I did not know that your child could do ........ I did not think autistic children could do such things." So what do you think autistic children can do? I hope you will have more faith in these children; trust in them is obligatory.
3 - "What did you do during the months of pregnancy to have a child like this?" A sentence often comes from an irresponsible person who assumes that the child is autistic because of a mistake made by the parents.
4 -"Did he fall from you when he was an infant?" That phrase follows # 3 and often comes out of an older person who knows nothing about autism.
5-"Oh, you poor man, you certainly will not risk having other children for fear of being such a child, right?" Well, parents do not need your kindness, they need your support! Although autism has genetic roots, that does not mean that all children will have it.
6 - "Take control of your naughty child, lady!" (He will break the shop, have a fit of anger, be harshly rebuked, etc.) "But no! My child is deeply aroused and must be taken to a quiet and gentle place to calm down and rest, not to be strongly reprimanded.
7 - What is wrong with your child? Why not listen or look at me when I talk to him? "Here when the parents of autistic children try to explain and correct the concepts to others that there is no blemish in their child, and then try to act as advocates of autism by explaining the actions of their child.
8 - "What is your child is a divine punishment for something committed or committed by your husband! The sins of the parents can not be punished by children, and God does not make mistakes, autistic children must be celebrated for what they can do, not ashamed of them!
9 - "No one likes to play with your child because he is eccentric." There are many stories about parents who refused to play their child with the autistic child or attend his birthday party, which is very unfortunate; and more regrettable for those who think and speak so harshly Not aware that leaving their child to play with the autistic child increases the child's awareness, enhances his feelings of compassion, and reduces his fear.
10 - "What are you going to do with your child / your child when he grows up? Do they still put the autistic children in a hospital or a shelter?" Some people ask questions such as these blunt questions, asking if your child will stick with you like a (po Radly) throughout your life and even die, Or you will send your child when he grows up to a place where he can not hurt others (as if he would do it!). 11 - Autism? How did you get this disease? "This question is often asked by self-contained person who is not aware of the changes of the age since the 1960s, but is used by some parents as an opportunity to explain and share their information about autism
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